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Treetop Fun: Ziplining in St. Maarten

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For our honeymoon, Landon and I went on a cruise. It was his first time out of the country, and we both just wanted to relax, so a week on a ship seemed to be a good way to enjoy our new marriage-ness.

And when I say I wanted to sit on a ship for seven days and do nothing, I wasn't kidding. I'd finished grad school just 13 days before I'd gotten married, and the stress of teaching, defending my thesis, planning a wedding, and passing my classes had gotten to me at that point.

After a little cajoling, Landon convinced me that we needed to spurge on just one shore excursion: ziplining. We're both pretty adventurous people (even if I complain while I'm adventuring), and I love scuba diving and parasailing. I figured that, by day four of our cruise, I'd be rested up enough to manage a zipline tour.

The morning of our ziplining tour dawned grey and rainy, which wasn't ideal. We were committed to our shore excursion and weren't going to miss it for anything.

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All of the shore excursions were lined up on the dock, and we found our group easily. After just a few minutes of waiting, the zipline group boarded a bus to head from one side of the island (where our cruise ship was docked) to the far end (where the zipline course was). We didn't pay for a tour of the island, but we ended up getting one thanks to our chatty bus driver!


The bus ride wasn't long--only about 20 minutes or so--and when we stopped, we were in the middle of a gorgeous tropical forest. The farm where the ziplining tour took place was incredibly pretty with these palm trees and bougainvillea everywhere.

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But we had more exciting things to do than check out the flora, so Landon and I headed into the ziplining area to get our gear and sign waivers. You know it's not a fun time until you sign your life away on a piece of paper!

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When we were finished with our harnesses and waivers, we entered the point of no return. It sounds seriously, but it was just that stone wall above. I couldn't take my camera with me into the actual ziplining course, so you'll have to trust me.

The start of the course involved us climbing four stories off the ground onto this rickety platform, hooking our harness to a cable, and jumping off.

There were no practice zips or mollycoddling. Just a "Have fun!" and a gentle push down this looooong zipline through the trees.

As one of the guides was helping me secure my harness onto the hook, I kept saying, "It's so high! Really, it's SO high!" He just smiled.

In the half second between the time I left the platform and the time I realized I was dangling over the tops of trees was incredible: I was terrified, elated, and amazed all at the same time!

Then, just like that it was over. I survived! (Spoiler alert: so did everyone else in our group.)

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Slightly out of focus, unflattering picture thanks to one of the guides (who then charged me $10 for it)!

After that, I felt far more at ease as we traversed rope bridges, climbed into treehouses, and zipped down a variety of other lines. By the end of the trip (nearly an hour and a half later), Landon and I were both tired, but extremely glad that we'd decided to splurge on this particular shore excursion.

If you're ever on either side of St. Maarten/ St. Martin, a trip to the zipline farm is worth your time. Loterie Farms is on Route Pic Paradise 103 on the St. Martin side of the island. We did the Fly Zone Extreme (which goes higher) because we're cool like that.

Have you ever been ziplining? What's your favorite type of adventure travel?

What Type of Traveler Are You?

What Type of Traveler Are You? | CosmosMariners.com

There are as many ways to travel as there are places to see in the world. And, despite what some people might tell you, there's no wrong way to travel. As long as you're enjoying yourself and doing something you love, then I applaud you. 

After nearly three decades of traveling and over a year of travel blogging, I've come across many approaches to travel. Some I've tried, some I'm sure are not my cup of tea, and others fit like a glove. So, what kind of traveler are you?

The Non-Traveler
If you can't think of a better way to spend your free time than curled up on your couch in your comfiest pajamas, then you're probably a non-traveler. You rarely cross the county line, and you might not have been outside the state you were born in--and you're completely okay with that. Home is where your heart is, and that's exactly where you plan to stay.

Must have travel gear: none.

The Wistful Traveler 
While you rarely (if ever) travel, you still love the idea of venturing out in the world. Thanks to finances, job restrictions, kids, or student loans, travel--even to nearby locales--just isn't in the cards for you right now. Until you can start checking off places on your wanderlust list, you'll happily bury yourself in the latest edition of "Travel + Leisure" while binge-watching Anthony Bourdain on television.

Must have travel gear: that dusty old suitcase that's been sitting in your closet for the past six years.

The Weekend Warrior
You work 40 (or more!) hours a week, you've got a family and a social life, but gosh-darn-it, you will find a way to travel as much as you can! Instead of hanging around your hometown on long weekends and work holidays, you're packing up your battered suitcase to jet off somewhere new--even if you'll spend more time in transit than you will at the actual destination. You don't care though, as those trips make the rest of your life so much more rewarding.

Must have travel gear: a carry on suitcase (because who has time to wait at the luggage carrel?) and every travel app currently known.

The Tropical Relaxer
Hand you a frosty fruity drink, direct you to a hammock, and don't bother you until your flight's about to board: you've got sand in your toes and the sound of the waves to lull you to sleep. Instead of packing endless activities and tours into your vacations, all you want is to find a place warm and sunny to relax, nap, and then relax some more (because we all know that vacation can be exhausting).

Must have travel gear: a floppy hat and a bag full of beach reads.

The Theme Park Addict
If a vacation doesn't include at least a few days in a park with thrill rides, princesses, or a daily parade, it isn't worth taking. You've been to Cedar Point more times than you can count, and you know all of the parks at Walt Disney World and Disneyland so well that you don't need a map anymore. Birthdays, holidays, summer vacations: all of these are perfect reasons to head back to your favorite rides.

Must have travel gear: season passes and a backpack.

The Cultural Aficionado
The first thing you do when planning a trip is scope out the local historical walking tours and the schedule of events at the nearest symphony. Any museum is fair game, and you scoff at the people who choose to lay out by the pool instead of learning something new on their vacations. Your pre-trip organization includes reading at least two guidebooks cover-to-cover, as well as a light history of the area.

Must have travel gear: copies of the local Fodor's, Rick Steves, and Lonely Planet guides, a notebook (to record everything you're learning), and a timetable of area walking tours.

The Camping Commander 
Trees? Check. Tent? Check. Outdoor fun for all? Double check! When you get a day or two off, the woods start to call, and you don't hesitate to respond. You've got your trusty camping gear stowed away just in case you get a free moment to head to your favorite spot, and you've been to more national parks than you can count. Instead of counting the number of countries or states that you've visited, you've got a running total of funny/ bizarre/ terrifying animal encounter stories. 

Must have travel gear: bug repellant and sleeping bags.

The Cruise Ship Fanatic
Long gone are the days of shuffleboard and endless games of bingo--today's cruise ships have nightclubs, golf courses, and ice skating. And you know how to run a day's activities better than the cruise director. When you aren't shaking it at a dance party on the Lido Deck, you're getting pampered at the onboard spa or trying out another delicious (and free!) meal in the Grand Dining Room.

Must have travel gear: an endless collection of bathing suits. 

The Adventurer
Skydiving, bungee jumping, cliff diving: if there's not a good change that you could get injured while attempting something, you're not interested. So, while other travelers are out there playing it safe on tours, you're pushing yourself to the limit climbing mountains, dangling off a bridge, or driving way too fast on a Jet-Ski. Life should be lived, right?

Must have travel gear: a Go Pro camera and a great insurance policy.

The Family Trip Tour Guide
You're taking your entire family on a trip, and they will love it. (Even if it's the last thing you all do.) While your kids listen attentively--or not--from the backseat, you share with them a running commentary of the historical things that they need to appreciate about your next stop. The entire thing might be a disaster--or it could be the greatest thing that's ever happened to your family.

Must have travel gear: a GPS, coloring books, and history books.

The Foodie
Wherever you're going, you will try the newest restaurant with that hip chef. You've got a running list of the strangest things you've eaten--nothing starts the conversation at a cocktail party like the story of when you ate a live octopus. While you're on your gastronomic jaunts, you're as equally likely to find a new dish to love at a street vendor as you are at the poshest restaurant.

Must have travel gear: a wine cork, a list of Michelin 5 star restaurants, and a biography of the latest celebrity chef. 

The Nomad
There's a big world out there, and you refuse to only see a small part of it. Instead of working at a traditional 9-to-5, you've found a way to earn a living on the road. Other people measure their lives in birthdays, school activities, and hours worked, while you measure yours by the number of countries you still have left to visit. 

Must have travel gear: the basic necessities. When you're carrying your life around with you, you don't have room for extras.


Which type of traveler are you? 

Sun, Fun, and Mint Mojitos: Bacardi Factory Tour, Puerto Rico

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While on our Puerto Rican adventure, my parents, sister, and I decided to venture away from our hotel one day and over to the Bacardi Factory Tour in Cantaño. We all love learning about behind the scenes stuff on factory tours, so, even though we're not the biggest drinkers, we decided to devote half a day to learning about rum production. 

Here's how our day went, and what you should expect if you're going on the Bacardi Factory Tour in Puerto Rico.

Puerto Rican Paradise: Caribe Hilton in San Juan, Puerto Rico

Puerto Rican Paradise: Caribe Hilton Hotel in San Juan | CosmosMariners.com

When my parents, sister, and I headed to Puerto Rico a few years back, I was in a much different place than I am now.

I was getting ready to be engaged to my now-husband (only I didn't know that at the time). I didn't have my darling daughter. I was starting my last year of grad school. 

But one thing hasn't changed in that time: my unwavering love of anywhere that has palm trees, turquoise waters, and perfectly white sands. 

When my mom found a super deal on the Caribe Hilton in San Juan, we jumped on the chance to head down to Puerto Rico for a few days. Even though I had to leave early for my adjunct professor training (the job that kept me from eating ramen noodles every night of my grad school days), I knew I had to go with them. 

So, I packed up my beloved Vera Bradley Night Owl weekender bag (which is still with me, five years later), and headed off into what was I found was paradise. 

We took a taxi from the San Juan airport and headed straight to the hotel. When we got there, I was amazed to find that the entire lobby is open air. 

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The lobby looking back towards the ocean and the pool.
As in there aren't any actual front doors. 

And there's a tropical bird in the lobby. 

And all day long, you can hear the sound of palm trees rattling in the warm breeze. Because there aren't any doors!

Needless to say, I was entranced before we'd even checked in. 

Our rooms weren't quite ready, so we took a quick look around the hotel. One of my favorite parts about the property was the San Geronimo Fort that's located just a few hundred feet from the lobby on the Condado Lagoon. Guests aren't allowed to tour it, but it's so cool to know that it's a part of the landscape.
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When we headed up to our rooms, they were pretty standard for a Hilton or Hampton Inn: two double beds, lots of neutrals, a tv, a shower. I did like that we had a view of the fort and the Lagoon.


Over the four days we stayed here, we explored most of what the hotel had to offer including the gorgeous pool area, the onsite grill (standard burgers and fries), and the beach area. I call it the beach for lack of a better word for a a place that has lots of sand and palm trees--but, unlike most beaches, you can't get into the water here. Because of the currents, there's no entry into the water, so your sunning and playing options are limited to the hotel pool unless you want to head off property.

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Clearly, I didn't mind the lack of a proper beach. Give me a good book, and I could stay here all day!

The hotel's been around for a long time--it opened in 1949--and it claims that the pina colada was created at its bar. Kudos to them for finding a way to fit the taste of the tropics into a blender!

One thing that I didn't love about the hotel was the fact that it was a few miles away from Old San Juan. That wouldn't be a problem if I'd gone to the hotel just to sunbathe and relax, but you know that I'm not much into relaxing if there are sites to see! We had to take a taxi back and forth every time we wanted to go into the historic section to eat or tour, which ended up racking up a pretty big bill for four people for four days. 

Because of where it was located (away from downtown), there weren't too many food options other than the grill and the bar in the hotel. There was this one Subway just across from the entrance, but I'm not too willing to go to a brand new place with awesome cuisine and eat cold cuts the entire time. 

So, minor complaints, but both worth considering when choosing your San Juan accommodations. 

Would I go back? Yes, if I was planning to hang around the hotel more than I did on this trip. The views were gorgeous and the property was nice. If I wanted to explore more of the old city, I'd probably head closer into town, though. 

Have you ever been to Puerto Rico? If so, tell me where you stayed and what you did! If not, is this a place on your bucket list?

5 Best Plantations in Louisiana: the River Road and Beyond

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Beignets, alligators, the French Quarter, and historic houses: these are typically what you'll find at the top of most visitors' Louisiana itineraries. Even if you only have a few days to explore New Orleans and beyond, the chances that you'll end up at a plantation are pretty high.

But with all of the options--and the history, both good and bad--which of the state's many sprawling properties should you visit?

I've done the hard work for you and have explored all over the Pelican State to find the 5 best plantations in Louisiana. Make the most of your time along the River Road and beyond as you learn about Southern history at these properties.

What to Do at Walt Disney World When You Aren't at the Parks

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On our December 2014 trip to Walt Disney World, we did something that we hadn't done in at least twenty years: we allotted free time away from the parks. And to my surprise: we weren't bored. There was plenty to do on our down-time days!

Usually, we're those crazy whirlwind people who show up at 10:00 p.m. on our travel days, go to four parks in four days, then head back out at the crack of dawn on the return travel day.

It's hectic and doesn't give you a moment to catch your breath, but we believe in packing in as much as we can.

Since this trip also marked the first trip for our toddler, we wanted some time to rest in between the park days. I knew that seeing the lights and characters and rides would be plenty overwhelming for Britton, so I planned a few low key days in there, too.

We ended up having so much fun on those days that I'm seriously considering adding more to our next trip (which probably won't be for several years, but I love planning far, far in advance).

What can you do at Disney when you're not in the parks? Here's a sampling.

The Importance of Home: the Other Side of Travel Blogging

Confession time: although I'm a travel blogger, I really, really like coming home.

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I complain a lot (and my husband can attest to this) about the fact that I can't travel all of the time, that I can't just get up and go whenever the mood strikes. Yes, I know: First World Problems and all that.

But when I sit back and think about my life and the amount I get to travel, I'm really okay with it. (Most of the time.)

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Her Carhartt overalls were all Landon's idea. He's trying to turn her into a country gal despite my efforts to the contrary.


I love going out and exploring the world in all of its terrifying, overwhelming, dazzling awesomeness, but I also need downtime to deal with those explorations.

I need to be with my family. I need to sleep in my own bed on occasion.

And I really, really need the several hundred books in my library. Book nerd forever!

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For those reasons, I don't know if I could take the bungee jump of selling my house, uprooting my daughter, and leaving here forever. I moved constantly as a kid, something that taught me that there are always new friends in every town, but that also left me without established roots in any one place. I want to give my daughter those roots while I simultaneously show her the rest of the world. It's not an easy tightrope on which to balance, but I'm trying.

I'm not a nomad, and I'm okay with that. I have serious respect for the travelers who decide to just up and go without a long term plan. I just know that I would have far more anxiety over doing something like that then I would get reward back from it.

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So, instead, I'll remain happy with my invisible tether that takes me away from and back to this place in the woods of coastal South Carolina. Even though I'm not a nomad, I am perpetually restless, and my frequent travels help to alleviate some of that.

Landon, Britton, and I were walking around our property the other night with our dog, and it was just a perfect moment. I'm often so preoccupied with my next trip or writing assignment that I forget how good it feels to be in the moment with the people who love you the most. I need to appreciate that more.

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My sweet daughter who won't ever let me put a barrette in her hair to keep it out of her eyes

Traveling opens my eyes to new cultures, books, sights, and foods, but home opens my heart.

What kind of traveler are you--a nomad with a wandering heart or someone who likes to come home at the end of the day? What makes home special to you?

A First-timer's Guide to Savannah, Georgia: Where to Visit, Eat, Shop, and Sleep

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Stately oaks dripping Spanish moss.

Gentile Southern mansions nestled around small parks.

Artsy students hurrying off to class, sketchbooks clutched in their hands.

Sounds idyllic, doesn't it?

You can find all of this (and lots, lots more) on the streets of Savannah, Georgia, one of my top three favorite Southern cities (Charleston being the numero uno in my book, of course, and New Orleans rounding out the trio).

Savannah's historic district isn't very big, but if you're visiting for the first time, you've probably got plenty of questions about what to see and do and where you should stay and eat. This isn't a definitive guide by any means, but hopefully, it will help you dive into the beauty and charm of Savannah.

Where to Stay

In the downtown area, there are plenty of great hotels within walking distance of everything that Savannah has to offer. Over the years, we've taken a bit of a hotel tour with all of the different places that we've stayed.

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The view from our room at the Hilton Savannah DeSoto

The Hilton Savannah DeSoto doesn't have a very glamorous lobby (though it does have a Starbucks!) but the rooms have recently been renovated. It's about halfway between River Street and Forsyth Park which puts you within easy walking distance of the entire historic district.

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Andaz Savannah on Ellis Square
We stayed at the Andaz Savannah (then known as Avia Savannah) one night of our honeymoon and loved the trendy vibe and super modern decor. It's located on Ellis Square just across from the City Market.

For my 29th birthday, we took a trip to Savannah with my parents and my sister and stayed in the Hampton Inn and Suites Historic District. As far as Hampton Inns go, this was a particularly nice one. A note to newcomers: at night, I wouldn't recommend wandering too far off Martin Luther King Boulevard away from the historic district if you stay at this hotel. I never felt unsafe walking to and from the Hampton Inn, but the area behind the hotel towards I-16 gets into not-so-great-for-tourists territory pretty quickly.

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The Westin Savannah Harbor Resort from the water taxi

On our most recent trip, we ventured across the river and stayed at the Westin Savannah Harbor Resort. Initially, I was hesitant about taking the water taxi back and forth, but I ended up loving the fact that we could retire to a quiet hotel away from the hustle and bustle of downtown. Plus, the views were amazing!

There are of course, dozens of other places to stay in the historic district including the Mansion on Forsyth Park, the Hyatt Regency, and the River Street Inn

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What to Eat

The answer to this is everything. (I kid. Sort of.) If you're interested in the super popular restaurants of the historic district, head over to The Lady and Sons or The Pirates House. I, for one, was pleasantly surprised by The Pirate House, and their BLT salad is one of my favorite meals in Savannah. I love that you get to dine in the historic buildings which date back to Savannah's colonial days. While Clary's Cafe is one of those incredibly popular spots, it comes by the fame for the right reasons. They serve a top notch breakfast here all day. I'm a huge fan of their strawberry cream cheese French toast!

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Outside the Pirates House Restaurant
The River Street area has lots of places to eat. Huey's is right by the water, so you can watch the barges come down the Savannah river while you eat a muffaletta. Kevin Barry's Irish Pub is also a popular spot by the water.

Another concentration of restaurants is in and around Ellis Square. In the City Market, you can grab some tasty wings at Wild Wings Cafe or build your own pizza over at Vinnie Van GoGo's (the pesto pizza with mushrooms and onions is a personal favorite).

Sample some local brews over at Moon River Brewing Company or Southbound Brewing Company. Southbound is just outside of the historic district, so you'll have to hop in your car if you're staying downtown.

What to See

On your first trip to Savannah, you absolutely have to allot time just to wander: part of the city's charms can only be absorbed when you're away from a guide book or a tour bus. Park your car and walk from spot to spot on your itinerary--everything's close enough to easily walk if you're in decent shape.
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One of the many beautiful historic houses in downtown Savannah

  • Take a historical tour. Savannah dates back to 1733, so you've got almost three centuries of happenings to discover. There are multiple ways to accomplish this, as Savannah offers walking tours, trolley tours, and carriage tours
  • Get spooked. If you're into the paranormal (or if you just like being scared a little!), Savannah's supposedly one of the most actively haunted cities in America. I guess the people who lived there liked it so much that they couldn't leave when they shuffled off this mortal coil. While there are ghost tours by foot and by trolley, my favorite is one that takes you around in an old hearse. I've taken a lot of ghost tours, and the Savannah Hearse Ghost Tours remains at the top of the list for both Landon and I. (And no, they didn't pay me to say that!)
  • Find the perfect souvenir. From your standard t-shirts and blankets in River Street shops to the first edition books over at the Book Lady Book Store, you'll be sure to find whatever tickles your fancy. Stroll down West Broughton Street for a bit of everything from Banana Republic to the Savannah Bee Company.  
  • Support the local arts. With one of the nation's top art schools (Savannah College of Art and Design, affectionally known as SCAD) located in downtown, you can be sure that there's no shortage of art galleries and exhibitions. There's an incredible rotating gallery on East Liberty Street where you can view and buy the work of SCAD students and faculty. 
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Outside of E. Shaver Booksellers, one of my favorite independent bookstores in Savannah
Other great spots to include on your trip are the fountain at Forsyth Square, the Juliette Gordon-Low house, the Mercer Williams house (famous for being the home of the songwriter and the later living quarters of Jim Williams, who features heavily in John Berendt's book, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil), and Bonaventure Cemetery (the gorgeous final resting place of Johnny Mercer and poet Conrad Aiken, who's tombstone inspired my blog's name!). 


What to Know

  • Check the calendar. If you're going around the time of the Savannah Marathon or St. Patrick's Day, prepare to pay higher prices and deal with bigger crowds. The St. Patrick's Day parade draws over a million visitors and is consistently ranked among the nation's biggest St. Patty parades. 
  • Expect to pay for parking. As with any historic or downtown district, parking is at a premium. Even if you're staying at a hotel in the downtown area, you'll still see a parking surcharge on your hotel bill. If you're driving in from a hotel elsewhere, there are plenty of parking garages and on-street parking meters. 
  • Make use of the free transportation. The Dot trams run in a circle around the historic district, and the River Street train takes people along the waterfront. There's also a water taxi that goes in a triangle between the Westin (across the Savannah River from the historic area), the Waving Girl statue, and the Hyatt Regency. 
  • The Hyatt Regency on River Street has free bathrooms on the second floor. Technically for the use of those attending a function in one of the ballrooms, these bathrooms are always clean and generally empty. There's also a nice seating area for nursing moms who want a little privacy. 
This post contains affiliate links to the hotels listed. If you choose to book through those links, I will receive a small kickback from the sale at no additional cost to you. 

Have you visited Savannah? If you have, what was your favorite part? If you haven't, is Savannah on your travel list?

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If you liked this post, you'll love my other first-timer's guides! Check out the guide for each city by clicking on the image below:

First-Timer Travel Guides 
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Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit

Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit

After nearly four weeks, I'm finally getting ready to blog about our Walt Disney World trip. I blame all of those December holidays that happened right after we got back. (Ha!)

In a way, I'm glad I've had a chance to step back and think about our trip. I had a lot of fun, but it was just so much different than every other Disney trip I've had.

Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit

Not better. Not worse. Just different.

Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit

The trip was the first one for our then 18-month-old daughter. I am a huge Disney parks fan, so I'd been planning Britton's first visit since the moment that I found out that I was pregnant. (Yes, I'm a total overachiever.) My husband also had some firsts on the trip, as he'd only ever been to Magic Kingdom.

Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit
That face is worth all of the stress that goes into planning a big family trip!

If you're thinking about taking your toddler to Disney World, I'd recommend pondering the topics below before you commit.

PROS

  • There is something incredible about a small child's face when they have that first magical moment. Britton was stunned by the fact that Mickey was ACTUALLY there when we visited him in the Magic Kingdom's Town Hall. Then, the joy that she got from waving to the characters during the Magic Kingdom parade is something that I'll never forget. 
  • They're free. Kids under 3 don't need a separate ticket. With a one day single park pass for kids hover around $90, that's a significant savings if you choose to take your 2 year old instead of waiting until he's 3 or 4. 
  • They can use the Baby Centers. When Britton needed a nap during the day, we would take her to the baby center in whichever park we were visiting. Run by a Disney parks attendant, the baby centers have big, clean changing tables, nursing rooms, high chairs, and toys. The centers also have formula, clothes, toys, pacifiers, and more for sale. 
  • Cast members go out of their way to interact with the little ones. While cast members are nice to (mostly) everyone, it seemed like they would pay special attention to Britton and the other toddlers--giving them high fives, calling them "prince" or "princess," and asking them about their day. 
  • There are A LOT of rides toddlers can enjoy! The only things that you can't take your toddler on are Expedition Everest, Tower of Terror, Rock 'n' Rollercoaster, Space Mountain, Big Thunder Mountain Railroad, Splash Mountain, Kali River Rapids, Seven Dwarfs Mine Train, and Indy Speedway. Other than that, you're good to go! Word of warning, though: just because you can take your toddler doesn't mean that you should. We had a freak out during It's Tough to Be a Bug when Britton got scared. You'll have to make judgment calls based on your own child's personality and fear levels. 
Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit
And then, there are the meltdowns.

CONS

  • Forget about the nighttime entertainment. The parades and evening shows are some of my favorite things to do at Disney World. But when you've got a toddler who get very, very cranky when she stays up past 7:30 p.m., those later programs have to go on without you. Of all of the things we missed, this seemed to have the most impact. Missing Holiday Wishes, Fantasmic, and Illuminations left a big hole in this trip for me. 
  • You'll have to skip the big rides. I, for one, am a theme park thrill ride junkie, and going to Expedition Everest, Rock 'n' Rollercoaster, and Tower of Terror are non-negotiable to me. Thankfully, my mom (who hates thrill rides) was along for the trip, so she watched Britton while we went on the big kid rides. There's always Rider Swap if you're there with your significant other, but I don't care for waiting in line and riding by myself. 
  • You will come to hate your stroller. You open it up when you leave your room. You close it up when you get on the bus. You open it up when you get off of the bus. You have to find stroller parking. You have to go back and find your stroller in stroller parking. I know little ones can't walk all of the time, and I know that strollers are a necessity, but I was so glad to pack that thing up at the end of the trip!
  • Your child won't remember it. When I was talking about our trip, this was the one thing that kept coming up. "But she won't remember going!" people told us. If you're only going to Disney World once, and you want your child to have memories of the experience, I'd hold off until he or she's 7 or 8. My toddler had a blast, and we took lots of pictures, but I know she won't remember this specific trip as she gets older. 
Of course, it all comes down to your personal preference and your family's expectations of the trip. If you want to spend 15 hours a day in the park, catch all of the shows and the fireworks, and eat at Victoria and Albert's every night, I'd recommend waiting until the kids are older. But if you're willing to go at a much slower pace, visit lots and lots of characters, and ride Dumbo for 15 times in a row, then I'd say go full steam ahead with your trip! If you do decide to take your baby or toddler, check out my Disney for toddlers tips!

When do you think is the best age to take kids to Disney? How old were you on your first trip? Did you wait until a certain age for your kids?

P.S. If you want to read more about our visits to Walt Disney World, reviews of on-property hotels, and more, head over here!

Should You Visit Walt Disney World with a Toddler? | The Pros and Cons of an Early Visit

The Caledonian Sleeper: Getting from London to Edinburgh in (Cramped) Style

The Caledonian Sleeper: Getting from Edinburgh to London in (Cramped) Style | CosmosMariners.com

When traveling between London and Edinburgh (two of the UK's best cities in my opinion!), you have a couple of transportation options: driving and flying are popular choices, but you could always go the hitchhiking or running options. I would not recommend the latter two, as the chances that you would be found in a ditch are fairly high on both.

And then there's my favorite option: the train.

Climbing Out of a Dark Hole: How Blogging Helped Me Find Myself Again

Climbing out of a Dark Hole: How My Blog Helped Me Find Myself Again | CosmosMariners.com

In June 2013, I gave birth to my daughter during an emergency c-section. She wasn't breathing well, so she was rushed to the Level II nursery at the hospital, the first of many tumbling dominos that ended with a four day trip to a Level III NICU and many touch and go moments.

Five days after she was born, we brought our beautiful daughter home. She'd been cleared by the doctors, and we were assured that there was no long term effects from those scary days.

During the first few weeks of parenthood, I floated through diaper changes and 2 a.m. feedings thanks to a combination of very strong pain medications and very little sleep. My husband and I were tired, but that's to be expected with a small baby.

He went back to work, and I began to struggle. So many other moms I knew were back up and at it just a few weeks after giving birth. But I could barely get up and dressed even in those weeks after I stopped taking my pain medication. I tried to present a brave face to the world, but inside, something felt broken, forgotten, empty, irreparable.

I was terrified that I would do something wrong with my daughter. That I would harm her in some way. That she would be better off if I just left forever. That I would never feel like myself again. That I had lost something of myself in the process of becoming a parent.

Before having my daughter, I was a happy-go-lucky, glass-half-full kind of person. I lived my life with joy, determination, and excitement.

But afterwards, I was a different person. I stopped writing in my blog. From June to November of 2013, there are no posts here. I didn't have anything to say to anyone, and I didn't care that I'd lost my voice. I stopped reading, which was one of my favorite things in the world. I stopped caring about traveling, another of my favorite things. I was convinced that I was stupid, overweight, and failing at everything that I was doing. Mostly, I just wanted to hide in my closet and cry.

In November 2013, I found out that my grandfather had inoperable, terminal lung cancer. I was at his side when he passed away five days after the diagnosis. You can imagine what this did to my already fragile psyche.

My husband struggled with how to support me: he encouraged me. He reminded me how healthy our daughter was. He reminded me how hard I was trying at everything. He tried the tough love approach. He argued with me.

Nothing seemed to get through.

Until one day, when he suggested that I start blogging again. He knew how much I loved journaling and blogging, and he'd been sad to see me push that part of my life aside. He told me to set small goals: publishing one or two posts a week.

So, I did. I wrote about whatever was going on with me that day. Those posts, with their lack of focus and irratic desperation, make me cringe from a writing perspective. But, when I go back and read them, I can remember the desperation I had. Sometimes, those blog posts were all that were keeping me from laying on the floor and sobbing.

From November 2013 to May 2014, I felt as if I were taking two steps backwards to every one step I took forward. I loved my blog and would often go to sleep thinking about my next posts. I was pouring my heart and soul into my blog and writing 5 posts a day, but I didn't have many readers. That, in my mind, justified my lack of self-worth.

Then, in May 2014, I found out that I'd won a press trip to St. Petersburg, Florida. Landon and I went on that trip, the first vacation we'd had in almost two years, and it was as if the clouds were parting again. I came back home and wrote with a fury that I didn't know I had anymore. I loved travel blogging. I LOVED it.

And slowly, slowly, slowly, since then, I've come back to my old self again, one post, one trip, one day at a time.

I've been a better parent and a better spouse since then. Blogging may seem a silly way to overcome such a soul-crushing experience, but it combines so many of the things that I love into one package, and I feel lucky to have this space.

I still have moments of doubt in myself, but they're nothing like I used to have. Looking back, I now know that I had some form of postpartum anxiety or depression. But I didn't know enough to seek help: I'd never had issues like that before, so I assumed that they were just caused by my lack of ability as a first time parent.

No matter where you are in your blogging, parenting, or life journey, I hope you know that you are good enough. And if you're having doubts about your self-worth, let me tell you this: you are an amazing person, and the world is lucky to have you. And if you're feeling depressed or alone, reach out for help. Find that person or thing that gives you a reason to get up in the morning.

Hello, 2015! I Have Big Plans for You.

Happy New Year, everyone! I brought in 2015 by reading and watching college football before grumpily going to bed at 12:02 a.m.

I bet you're a little jealous that your NYE wasn't as cool as mine. Right?!

As I look forward to what 2015 has in store for me, I'm excited about the possibilities. 2013 was a rough year for so many reasons (tough pregnancy, my unexpected hospitalization, a trip to the NICU for my newborn, a house flood, the death of my grandfather), and 2014 felt like a transition year (we got a new house, I refocused my blog, I started traveling more regularly again).

All of this can only mean that 2015 is going to be PHENOMENAL.

So, without further ado, here are a few things I've got swirling around in my little ol' head for the big '15.